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Time Travel: resettling Vietnamese refugees in 1977

Posted on June 11, 2025, by Mary Nelle Gage SL

A man playing a guitar and a woman singing reading the lyrics on a paper. They are sitting on the floor together in a room with a wooden desk behind them.
Peter Urban teaches a song to Kien Pham.

In October 1977 eleven refugees from Vietnam sheltered at St. Theresa’s Catholic Church in Frederick, Colo., where Elizabeth Dyer and Kathy Santopietro worked with Leonard and Peter Urban. The families resettled in Longmont, Colo. Enjoy these photos from the past courtesy of Kathy Santopietro Weddel!

One young girl standing resting her elbow on the seat of a bicycle and four other children sitting and smiling at something out of frame.
Tu Anh, Tuong Anh, Tom Anh, Tuyet Anh and Khoa enjoy time with church members.
Preparing a meal at St. Theresa’s Catholic Church are, from left, Lou Schmidt, Linda Hurtado, Leonard Urban, Dan Schulte, Peter Urban; in front is Loc Pham.

Vietnam motherland tour 2025: To explore, to experience, to enjoy and to bond!

Six people smiling together, some wearing matching white t-shirts with matching bird graphics on a tourbus together.
The group of former adoptees and their families enjoys a bus tour. In front, from left, Tara Langenkamp, Laurie Caluori Daniels, Nicole Gronstal; behind: Adam Larson; in the background: Ben Johnson, left, and Lonnie Markson.
Photo by Ruth Routten

Our 2025 trip to Vietnam was a special journey, as it marked 50 years since Operation Babylift, the completion of our childcare and adoption program and the end of the Vietnam War. Susan Carol McDonald, with whom I worked at New Haven Nursery in Saigon, and I have escorted groups of Vietnam War Orphans to and through their motherland periodically since 1996.

Four people sitting on a small boat and one man standing and rowing in a body of water in remote town with buildings with straw and grass roofs in the background. Two of the people sitting in the boat are wearing life jackets, and one is wearing a green plastic rain poncho.
Mary Nelle Gage, wearing a green rain poncho, enjoys a boat tour with fellow travelers.
Photo by Ruth Routten

While 34 adoptees from the U.S., Canada and Germany joined us for the whole tour this year, several more were with us for the Saigon and Mekong Delta days. Two adoptive mothers, 14 spouses, six siblings, eight children, two former volunteers, Ruth Routten and I comprised the group. A few adoptees had been to Vietnam in prior years; four had journeyed with Ruth and me on previous trips.

The Motherland Tour 2025 group pauses for a photo at Providence Orphanagen in BacLieu. Several orphanages where the former adoptees stayed as children were on the itinerary.
Photo by Ruth Routten

Their adoption backgrounds were myriad. Seven had been chosen from the orphanages by their adoptive fathers who were working or stationed in Vietnam, with the legal formalities accomplished by Vietnamese attorneys or by our Friends for All Children (FFAC) director, Rosemary Taylor. Others had been cared for and placed with families by Holt International, World Vision and International Rescue Committee, Catholic Relief Services and Friends of Children of Vietnam. A special blessing for me was making this journey with adoptees who had been in our FFAC nurseries.

Three men sitting studying aged handwritten paper records at a table in a dimly lit room.
Jason Kayse, center, a pastor, left, and Viet, far right, study baptismal records from the orphanage in BacLieu.
Photo by Ruth Routten

The Presidio in San Francisco was the site of our meet and greet on March 27. In April 1975 hundreds of Operation Babylift orphans were cared for here by community volunteers and medical staff until flight arrangements could be made to adoptive parents in the U.S., Canada and Europe.

To EXPLORE the adoptees’ historical roots is a primary goal of the journey — at maternity clinics, orphanages and the former sites of the nurseries. Sacred Heart in Danang still has their record book; three of our adoptees found their earliest information in the registry. Searching the baptismal records in Catholic churches associated with the orphanage provides another opportunity.

While visiting orphanages and former nursery sites, we EXPERIENCE the sights, the sounds and the smells in the air and on the streets. We experienced culture. We learned to prepare Vietnamese dishes, took boat trips on the Mekong River, toured the morning floating market, toured brick-making and coconut candy factories, were entertained by local musicians at our Delta Homestay overnight and learned lantern-making in Hoi An.

From left, Christy Holman, Tara Langenkamp and Lani Lang study an orphanage record book.
Photo by Ruth Routten

From Hue to Danang we traveled the Road from the Sea to the Sky. Cultural experiences included visiting a Buddhist Temple, climbing hundreds of steps to several Buddhist shrines and meeting Catholic priests and sisters. We donned traditional tailored Vietnamese tunics to do morning tai chi on the deck of our cruise ship on Halong Bay. We visited historical sites, including the Hue Citadel and temples of the Nguyen Dynasty, as well as the My Lai massacre site and the Hanoi Hilton.

ENJOY, we did: swimming in Halong Bay, walking on the beach, golfing, riding water buffaloes, taking nighttime motorcycle tours through Saigon, traveling roads beside lush rice and corn fields, kayaking and boating … and most of all, we enjoyed each other.

And finally, we BOND: The friendships formed, from crib-mates to soulmates, are the treasured outcome of the journey. After a few days, as we rolled along, would come, “We’re not only friends, we are family.” The shared heritage as orphans of war, days and nights together in Vietnam, create a cherished bond.

Our mission to explore, to experience, to enjoy and to bond: ACCOMPLISHED!

Mary Nelle Gage SL

Mary Nelle was raised in Texas and graduated from Loretto Heights College ('66) where she met the Sisters of Loretto. After entering Loretto in 1967, she taught English, speech and drama at St. Mary's Academy and Machebeuf High School. Mary Nelle joined Sister Susan Carol McDonald in Saigon, Vietnam, to care for orphans and to assist with their adoption. For 20 years she resettled refugees for several church agencies. For 30 years she has done customer service at American Airlines and does occasional marketing for EarthLinks. She is involved in the preservation and re-development of the LHC (Loretto Heights College) campus.
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